why-bless-your-heart:

putyouinabook:

why-bless-your-heart:

Friendly reminder to not punish yourself for creating. 

Can you elaborate on what you mean by this?

I have a tendency to beat myself up whenever something I make doesn’t meet my expectations (which is always). The result is that finishing something = bad feelings: I am effectively punishing myself for having created something. The natural reaction to this punishment is an aversion to creation, meaning that my perfectionism is harming me, not only by causing me to despise what I do make and by impeding the creative process, but by attacking even my desire to create.

loonyloomy:

Just wanted to share this coming out story from a guy I saw on First Dates. He came out to his dad when he was 20, and then his mum when he was 21, after trying very hard to hide that part of himself and never really discussing anything like that in their household. Hearing his mother’s response after he explained all that was really gratifying. To all Muslim LGBT+ people, As-Salaam-Alaikum ❤

afternoonapocalypse:

soonersgirl86:

itsonlymarlon:

briskeboys:

vikingpoteto:

not to be dramatic, but Okoye telling her bitch ass husband she would end him without hesitation when he tried to manipulate her changed me as a person and cured my depression. 

“would you kill me my love?”

“for wakanda? No question.”

a woman in my theater: “oH I HEARD THAT!!!!”

Wanda Maximov on the otherhand won’t uninstall her dating sim to save the universe.

Steve Rogers sacrificed/ put himself on ice to save the world. Even when he had a date.

I hate that I responded to this post because I keep seeing all these responses disrespecting Wanda.

Telling a man that has betrayed your country that sure you loved him but he is a traitor now and that love won’t protect him from facing his punishment isn’t the same as killing your current love who literally has done nothing wrong while you hope that there is another way.

Self sacrifice is not the same thing either. Steve did not kill Peggy, and I think it would go absolutely against his character to have “killed Peggy to save people” especially since he was not on board with sacrificing Vision either.

And again, Wanda very much did in fact blow Vision to bits while fending off Thanos one handed. Okoyé is a bad ass, but we don’t need to put down other female characters for having very human feelings.

edbangingrobot:

wlwjoandarc:

LGBT BRAZILIANS TAKE CARE WITH DATING APPS AND GRINDR, THEY WILL BE USED TO TARGET VICTIMS PLEASE SIGNAL BOOST

ALSO!!!!!!!!!!!!

In Whatsapp (the most used messaging app in Brazil), if you receive a contact from a “juridical support group for LGBT+ people who are being harassed” called “REAJA”, DO NOT INTERACT!!!!!!! Apparently, this is not a real support group but it’s a trap that are targeting LGBT+ people to physically harm them. They people behind “REAJA” have very malicious intentions.

Be careful and stay safe!!!!!!!